Lois and I have been entrusted with gifts and privileges over the years. Such things may come ultimately from God, but they are delivered through people like you. Two special gifts came this month and reminded me why we say “entrusted.” We get gifts so we can use them responsibly.
The first gift was when we found an old recipe book of Brazilian recipes from a women’s meeting on our first visit back from from Brasil.
Let’s go back a few steps: Before we got married, we decided to be missionaries. A year after tying the knot, we moved to Brazil — 25 and 23 years old!
We started our family in Brazil, and then raised our daughters in Guatemala. Some people thought we were really dedicated—giving away our lives—but we always thought we were on the receiving end, getting many more good things than we ever gave up.
The recipe book, and the prayers of friends
The first gift I got this month was an old recipe book with only five recipes. It’s old, and typed on a typewriter. We aren’t exactly sure when this little booklet was made. The introduction includes language that often made us feel uncomfortable because it implied that we were doing something particularly special. It also made Brazilians out to be poor and needy, and our friends in Brazil were very much like us. Sometimes our friends nurtured ideas of Brazil that was might have been more consistent with the Amazon jungle than with the very urban context of the two cities we lived in. Not only was the jungle 5 hours away by plane, the cities we lived in were amazingly modern, in some ways beyond what we had experienced in the USA. São Paulo (15 million people then) was enormous and an industrial powerhouse . Curitiba (3 million) was a great city to live in, and a global standard setter for good urban planning.
What made this booklet a gift was also in the introduction.
Something more important than the mis-conceptions about who we were and where we lived, was the willingness of our friends to make special efforts to pray for us. We were the privileged ones because we were on the receiving end of the prayers of many more people than anyone we knew. Many still pray for us. We get all the benefits.
Its mysterious to some, but God seems to pay attention when people turn to him and cry out for help on behalf of others. We were those “others” for whom our friends cried out to God. It’s not like bad things never happened to us. But it is true that the bad things never STAYED bad. People we hardly knew kept talking to Him about us.
I have attached a link to the entire cookbook. It has five great, and simple, recipes for Brazilian food that we still love to this day.
How to use this gift responsibly? I think the answer is hidden behind the second gift I received recently, and I will post about that in the next couple of days.
But using this gift responsibly begins by saying THANK YOU!
You have made a huge difference in our lives. All the joyful pictures and family joys that we post on Facebook, are because of you. The skills we have now and use to serve others — Lois helping students at the High School to find their way to College, and me, standing as an ally for Latin Americans as they enter a world of conflict, oppression and need in the name of Jesus , so that they can offer blessing and well-being and encourage others to follow Jesus—these are special skills and we have them because you gave us a context in which to grow and develop them. Thank you.
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